Prepare a real conversation The conversation: [who, about what, when]. My half (facts I hold): [dates, hours, records]. Their half (what I am missing): [what they know that I do not]. One fact I will give: [fact]. One question I will ask: [question]. Who can decide: [owner of the date, scope, access or record]. If the other side is an AI tool: [what it reported / what I will check before relying on it]. After: [what I learned, what changed, what is still unknown]. Use before a real conversation with a person or an AI tool. Keep names and confidential details out; the card is yours, not an assessment.